Vai trò của Mẹ và Cha trong điều chỉnh hành vi trẻ: Thực hành nuôi dạy và sự xã hội hóa cảm xúc của mẹ như là những yếu tố dự đoán

Journal of Child and Family Studies - Tập 27 - Trang 4033-4043 - 2018
Rebecca Y. M. Cheung1, Courtney Boise2, E. Mark Cummings3, Patrick T. Davies4
1Department of Early Childhood Education, Centre for Child and Family Science, and Centre for Psychosocial Health, The Education University of Hong Kong, Hong Kong, Hong Kong
2Department of Psychology, University of Nebraska-Lincoln, Lincoln, USA
3Department of Psychology, University of Notre Dame, Notre Dame, USA
4Department of Clinical and Social Sciences in Psychology, University of Rochester, Rochester, USA

Tóm tắt

Dựa trên mô hình khái niệm về các quá trình gia đình tác động đến sự phát triển xã hội - cảm xúc và mô hình ngữ cảnh về kiểu nuôi dạy con, nghiên cứu hiện tại đề cập đến mối liên hệ giữa các thực hành nuôi dạy trẻ, sự xã hội hóa cảm xúc của mẹ và sự điều chỉnh của trẻ trong giai đoạn giữa thời thơ ấu. Tổng cộng có 217 gia đình tham gia nghiên cứu, bao gồm mẹ, cha và trẻ em 8 tuổi (101 bé trai, 116 bé gái). Kết quả cho thấy sự kỷ luật không nhất quán của cha và các thực hành nuôi dạy tích cực dự đoán nhiều và ít vấn đề điều chỉnh của trẻ tương ứng, vượt qua tác động của các thực hành nuôi dạy của mẹ. Cuộc thảo luận cảm xúc của mẹ với trẻ dự đoán giảm bớt các vấn đề bên ngoài của trẻ. Hơn nữa, cuộc thảo luận cảm xúc của mẹ còn làm giảm mối liên hệ giữa sự kỷ luật không nhất quán của mẹ và các vấn đề nội tâm của trẻ, sao cho trẻ thể hiện ít vấn đề nội tâm hơn khi mẹ tham gia vào các cuộc thảo luận cảm xúc ở mức độ từ vừa đến cao với trẻ. Hỗ trợ cho lý thuyết hệ thống gia đình, cả quy trình nuôi dạy của mẹ và cha đều góp phần vào sự phát triển của trẻ. Những phát hiện này bổ sung cho tài liệu hiện có bằng cách cung cấp bằng chứng về tài sản và nguy cơ gia đình tích lũy, ảnh hưởng đến sự điều chỉnh của trẻ. Dựa trên những phát hiện, các học giả và chuyên gia có thể xem xét việc bổ sung nhiều thành phần cảm xúc hơn trong nuôi dạy trẻ vào các can thiệp hiện có tập trung vào kỷ luật nuôi dạy.

Từ khóa

#nuôi dạy con #cảm xúc #điều chỉnh trẻ #gia đình #xã hội hóa cảm xúc

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