From MOM to MORE: Emerging Research on Mixed Orientation Relationships
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Bradford M. Couple therapy with GLB-straight relationships. J GLBT Fam Stud. 2012;8(1):5–22. Though it focuses on MOMs with one heterosexual and one same-sex attracted partner, this paper provides an excellent framework for providing MORE couples/family therapy. Four case studies illustrate the diversity in clinical presentation and potential outcomes for mixed orientation couples seeking therapeutic intervention.